We are often asked what is the Constellation Approach™ about, why should someone do it? The simplest and clearest answer is that the Constellation Approach™ gives a person the opportunity to experience peace in their Soul in relation to their family. Wherever an individual is in disharmony with their present or past...

There are three simple words that are used in The Constellation Approach™ which offer a doorway into healing for anyone when spoken sincerely. We have found that in almost any relationship, these words are a reflection of a person in relation to the other. Bert Hellinger taught these to us and how to...

Whether or not you are with family this holiday season, we encourage you to set up your Family of Origin Constellation in the Order of Precedence -- that is, as each member has come into the family, chronologically. It is a simple, yet very powerful exercise to see your family...

One of the concepts that we work with in the Constellation Approach are the feelings of ‘Guilt and Innocence’ in connection to our families and relationships. Bert Hellinger taught us that “all growth will include guilty feelings.” As we move through life and begin to individuate from our Family Energy...

In the Constellation Approach, as in most Family Constellation practices, there is a principle of suspending moral judgment. To suspend judgment is to pause, postpone, or interrupt our usual way of perceiving a situation.  To be moral is to have principles, values, to be good or honorable in our society and...

Bert Hellinger describes an 'ancient order that works inside us, that controls much more than we are aware.  Good order comes about when peace has been made for the whole system.'  When 'peace has been made' and love flows, so too does the energy (peace) within a family.  When love...

Healing is a two-stage process that involves the past and the future. We begin by openly acknowledging our desire for change. Then, we actively work to shift our consciousness to create the change. In the first stage of healing, our perspective on our past changes. By amending our remembrance of...